Expectations!
Expectations.. this seemingly harmless word is in-fact a life spoiler.. yeah.. you read it correct.
you can have expectations on anything but not on your beloved ones as it spoils the relationship..
a big expectation if not met will lead your mind to dissatisfaction and this itself is a sure sign of falling relationships.
i should have been aware that everyone has their own way of thinking just like i have my own way of thinking and acting. but if i start expecting the same behavior from others ( i often do that and very unfair ) life becomes hell...
it does not mean that i expect this from everyone but only from a select few.. but that itself is wrong so i learned...
Life without expectations on your loved ones will be more joyful.. i learned it the hard way.. but still trying to implement the learnings.. some qualities are hard to shed :)
you can have expectations on anything but not on your beloved ones as it spoils the relationship..
a big expectation if not met will lead your mind to dissatisfaction and this itself is a sure sign of falling relationships.
i should have been aware that everyone has their own way of thinking just like i have my own way of thinking and acting. but if i start expecting the same behavior from others ( i often do that and very unfair ) life becomes hell...
it does not mean that i expect this from everyone but only from a select few.. but that itself is wrong so i learned...
Life without expectations on your loved ones will be more joyful.. i learned it the hard way.. but still trying to implement the learnings.. some qualities are hard to shed :)
2 comments:
Personal comment:
so this post is the ultimate outcome of so many disappointments created by me to your expectations u had on me... i am so sorry for all my deeds that disappointed u... i feel guilty when ever i see the good bye milo post...will try not disappoint u to the extent possible .
Generic Comment:
U are right.. expectations spoils happiness.My new policy is ,"No expectations ;No disappointments".
Personal Comment:
don't feel sorry.. as i said in this post it is not your mistake.. it is my mistake..
Generic Comment:
grt policy.. keep it up...
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