Expectations!

Expectations.. this seemingly harmless word is in-fact a life spoiler.. yeah.. you read it correct.

you can have expectations on anything but not on your beloved ones as it spoils the relationship..

a big expectation if not met will lead your mind to dissatisfaction and this itself is a sure sign of falling relationships.

i should have been aware that everyone has their own way of thinking just like i have my own way of thinking and acting. but if i start expecting the same behavior from others ( i often do that and very unfair ) life becomes hell...

it does not mean that i expect this from everyone but only from a select few.. but that itself is wrong so i learned...

Life without expectations on your loved ones will be more joyful.. i learned it the hard way.. but still trying to implement the learnings.. some qualities are hard to shed :)

Good Bye MILO!!!

Hi All,
it is a while i posted anything in my blog... but i would like to give a farewell for our pet dog Milo who recently passed away leaving us all in deep grief...

i have already posted about Milo... but his death is a very big blow for us as he was an integral part of our family and he was keeping company for my mom as i and my sis are working in Chennai and Bangalore and my mom and dad would be alone back in vellore. His nature of death also left us in shock as he was in very good health and he died of poisoning and we don't have an idea of what or how he was poisoned.

Milo we loved you so much.. be with us in every walk of our life..

Shame!!!

Hi All,

I would like to share one incident that i saw which infuriated me very much...... guess on which topic....

If u had guessed Police behaviour then u are spot on...

i am a routine traveller to Vellore from Guindy..Kathipara to be exact where i board the bus to Vellore..

One such day I was waiting for the bus in Kathipara, it was Friday evening and considerable police contingent was there to control the crowd and traffic.

Two cops were standing near by me...and they suddenly stopped two kids crossing them.. I wondered what could be wrong as I did not see any misbehaviour from those kids and they where just walking minding their own business..
Needless to say the kids where also very confused..

The cops instructed the kids to get two packets of baked groundnut from the street vendor standing few feet away..
The vendor also saw the kids stopped by the cops...when the kids approached him he silently gave the kids the two packets..who in turn gave the packets to the cops...


Well u may think it happens all the time...but I was very much infuriated, the cops can't even afford Rs 1,
They try to get everything free even from street vendors who struggle every day to survive....

Shame on these people... Shame on TamilNadu Police

Even trying to think that these guys are there to protect us makes my skin crawl...and they compare these guys with Scotland Yard ….Funny!!