Expectations!

Expectations.. this seemingly harmless word is in-fact a life spoiler.. yeah.. you read it correct.

you can have expectations on anything but not on your beloved ones as it spoils the relationship..

a big expectation if not met will lead your mind to dissatisfaction and this itself is a sure sign of falling relationships.

i should have been aware that everyone has their own way of thinking just like i have my own way of thinking and acting. but if i start expecting the same behavior from others ( i often do that and very unfair ) life becomes hell...

it does not mean that i expect this from everyone but only from a select few.. but that itself is wrong so i learned...

Life without expectations on your loved ones will be more joyful.. i learned it the hard way.. but still trying to implement the learnings.. some qualities are hard to shed :)

Good Bye MILO!!!

Hi All,
it is a while i posted anything in my blog... but i would like to give a farewell for our pet dog Milo who recently passed away leaving us all in deep grief...

i have already posted about Milo... but his death is a very big blow for us as he was an integral part of our family and he was keeping company for my mom as i and my sis are working in Chennai and Bangalore and my mom and dad would be alone back in vellore. His nature of death also left us in shock as he was in very good health and he died of poisoning and we don't have an idea of what or how he was poisoned.

Milo we loved you so much.. be with us in every walk of our life..

Shame!!!

Hi All,

I would like to share one incident that i saw which infuriated me very much...... guess on which topic....

If u had guessed Police behaviour then u are spot on...

i am a routine traveller to Vellore from Guindy..Kathipara to be exact where i board the bus to Vellore..

One such day I was waiting for the bus in Kathipara, it was Friday evening and considerable police contingent was there to control the crowd and traffic.

Two cops were standing near by me...and they suddenly stopped two kids crossing them.. I wondered what could be wrong as I did not see any misbehaviour from those kids and they where just walking minding their own business..
Needless to say the kids where also very confused..

The cops instructed the kids to get two packets of baked groundnut from the street vendor standing few feet away..
The vendor also saw the kids stopped by the cops...when the kids approached him he silently gave the kids the two packets..who in turn gave the packets to the cops...


Well u may think it happens all the time...but I was very much infuriated, the cops can't even afford Rs 1,
They try to get everything free even from street vendors who struggle every day to survive....

Shame on these people... Shame on TamilNadu Police

Even trying to think that these guys are there to protect us makes my skin crawl...and they compare these guys with Scotland Yard ….Funny!!

The Woman in your life!!

I got this has forward.. Nice one...

Donno who wrote it, but a well Versed, superb Expression!!!

The woman in your life...very well expressed...

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these
facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family
name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe
more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you
are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and
knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns
faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men
at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is
willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational
jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows
in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this...

New Feature Added!!!

Hi all,
I have added a file sharing widget to my blog. U can dowload the files i have uploaded. As a starter i have uploaded a clipping of TR..a must see one if u want a good laugh!!!!
U can watch the section for more fun/technical stuffs in the feature...

I will be adding other new features to my blog soon to make browsing my blog a enjoyable one...
So look out.

Aloha

Happy New Year!!!!!

HI everyone it has been a long time since i posted anything in my blog..
First a little update of my current situation....i am now in Sholinganallur Development centre of Infy (hope this will be my permanent place in Infy..)

I am now into a project which has lot of opportunities to learn (which means lot of work...)

Anyway I would like to look back the year 2006…

A very special year for me..
Found my Life partner….finished my M.E….Got into Infy…My first sal…
I will never forget 2006………………Hope the year 2007 will be an even more memorable year…..

A very Happy New Year to all (a bit late though!!!Sorry!!!)

Transferred To Chennai!!!

Hi all,
I have been transferred to Chennai from Bangalore...
I am now in Mahindra City,Chengalpet...

HAPPY DIWALIIIIIIIIII

hi all,
A very happy Diwali to u all....enjoy a nice weekend....

My First Month At Infy!!!!!!

hi all..i promised that i will write abt my Infy experience...here it is..(bit late though..sorry for that)...

The much anticipated job...much anticipated company....
yeh..i joined infy with lot of dreams,the company did not let me down...

Beautifulllll campus i ever saw(mind u i have attended few interviews)I was lucky that my first posting was in Bangalore the headQ of Infy...But i want to be in Chennai..that is a different story..

Lets come back to Infy Campus..Lush green meadows..Elegant structured buildings spaced well ,not crowding....artistically designed artificial ponds...Fountains...And the facilities here is superb..Good food courts(costly though..we will come to this later)Everything u want inside the campus...

And abt the training, many told abt the training to me that it is spectacular..very tight with lot of exams..but i was disappointed,no good teachers except for Java..poor course material...and not enough systems to work...

but the examm part was true,we had lot of exams..all online and again very controversial, that many got poor results even though writing the exam well...but i got the expected marks,i don't know what happened to others...

the living cost is very high here,as i said here to get reasonable food we have to pay very high price compared to Chennai..and the traffic in Hosur Road is a nightmare...it takes 20 min in morning form BTM(Where i stay) to Electronic City,but it takes 2 hrs in the evening!!!!

only thing here is that it is not Chennai..even though Chennai is hottest, sweaty and very crowded i like Chennai best...i don't like the Bangalore climate(!!)...

overall it was a 30-60% experience for me,30%-likable,60%-not...i have completed the training here successfully..i will post my placement details later..

I Got Placed!!!!

Atlast the day, i wanted badly had arrived for me. The day when i will tell my parents that i got placed in a company... to see thier joy...


i got placed at Infosys, and it is really a relief more than joy for me....

i think i may have interseting post ahead as i will go to Bangalore and i start my work....

stay tuned...